he is definitely completely misunderstanding half of what wangji said i'm so sorry

quests!

i mean it wasn't about you and him obviously i was asking like
in general
about
lans

anyway the point is they're not supposed to like

touch skin or whatever except in the bed chamber or something

but when i asked like
okay but then how do you moonlace

he told me to do a bunch of stuff, to get permission

uh

learn a new ward
hunt a ghost
help someone

i think really the idea is you just have to prove you're working to be a good cultivator??

the bar is probably higher for like

you and hanguang-jun but

you just have to go and do a lot of good things and then be like hey how about now and he'll be like okay you can come back to my bedroom again